Questions to Ask Your Crush or Partner

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Cute questions to ask your crush (24)

1. What's your comfort movie, the one you put on when you need a hug?
2. What's a small thing that made you smile today?
3. Are you a sunrise person or a sunset person?
4. What's your go-to order at a coffee shop?
5. What song have you had stuck in your head this week?
6. What did you want to be when you were little?
7. What's your favorite smell in the whole world?
8. Which fictional couple do you secretly root for the most?
9. What's your idea of a cozy night in?
10. What's your favorite thing about yourself?
11. What's the best gift you've ever been given?
12. What are three things that always make your day better?
13. If you could have any animal as a pet, no rules, what would it be?
14. What's a song that always makes you think of summer?
15. What's your favorite memory from when you were a kid?
16. What would your perfect lazy Sunday look like?
17. What's something you're really looking forward to right now?
18. What's one thing you always notice about people?
19. Do you have a nickname only close people use?
20. What dessert would you pick for the rest of your life?
21. What's your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
22. What's a show you could rewatch forever?
23. What's the sweetest thing a stranger has ever done for you?
24. What's your favorite word?

Fun and funny questions (22)

1. What's the worst pickup line that would actually work on you?
2. What's your most harmless red flag?
3. What would your dating app bio say if your mom wrote it?
4. What's the most chaotic thing you did this year?
5. What's a hill you will die on, food edition?
6. What's the most random talent you have?
7. If we were in a heist movie, what would your role be?
8. What's the weirdest thing in your camera roll right now?
9. Which celebrity would play you in a movie about your life?
10. What emoji would you be?
11. What's a word you always spell wrong?
12. What's the most embarrassing song you know every word to?
13. If you were a snack, what snack would you be?
14. What's your most controversial opinion that's not actually controversial?
15. What's something you're weirdly good at?
16. What's the last thing that made you laugh so hard you cried?
17. What would be the name of your autobiography?
18. If animals could talk, which one would be the rudest?
19. What's your most used phrase?
20. What would you do with a whole day where nobody needed you?
21. What would you do if we swapped phones for a day?
22. What's the worst date idea you can think of?

Flirty questions (playful, not explicit) (29)

1. What was your first impression of me?
2. What's something about me you noticed but never said?
3. What's the most attractive thing someone can do without trying?
4. What would our first date be, if you planned it?
5. What's a compliment you never get tired of hearing?
6. What's the first thing you'd do if we hung out right now?
7. What's your type, honestly?
8. What do you think we would be like on a road trip together?
9. What's the best way to get your attention?
10. Do you get butterflies easily?
11. What's the most romantic thing someone could do for you?
12. Have you ever had a crush on someone you were texting?
13. What do people compliment you on most?
14. What song would you send someone you're into?
15. What makes you blush?
16. When did you first think we might get along?
17. What's the most romantic scene you've seen in a movie?
18. If I asked you out right now, what would you say?
19. What's a small thing someone did that made you fall for them?
20. What would you want to know about me that you haven't asked yet?
21. Are you a cuddler?
22. What's a little thing about you that people only notice later?
23. What outfit makes you feel most confident?
24. Which of my texts made you smile the most?
25. What's something you find really attractive that most people wouldn't?
26. What's something you'd want to do on a late-night walk with someone?
27. What would make you text someone back the second you see their name?
28. What's your most flirty emoji, and when do you use it?
29. If you had to describe your flirting style in three words, what would they be?

Bold questions, if you are feeling brave (28)

1. What would you say if I told you I have a crush on you?
2. What made you keep talking to me?
3. What's the boldest thing you've ever done for someone you liked?
4. If we were dating, what's the first thing you'd want to do together?
5. What's something you wanted to say to me but talked yourself out of?
6. Have you ever made the first move?
7. What would you want our first kiss to be like?
8. What's a dream date you have never told anyone about?
9. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you like talking to me?
10. What do you think would happen if we went on a date?
11. What's one thing you'd love to do with someone you're into?
12. Who do you think likes who more right now?
13. What's the most flirty thing you've ever said to someone?
14. Do you think about me when we're not talking?
15. What would you do if I showed up right now?
16. Be honest: did you smile when you saw my message?
17. What's something you've wanted to ask me but haven't?
18. If I asked you on a date this week, which day would you pick?
19. Are you flirting with me right now, or is that just your personality?
20. Truth: have you ever thought about kissing me?
21. What would make you say yes to me?
22. Am I flirting too much, or exactly the right amount?
23. What's the most charming thing I've done so far?
24. What's one thing you'd love me to do more often?
25. When was the last time I gave you butterflies?
26. Describe us in three words.
27. Guess what I thought the first time I saw your photo.
28. What's the boldest text you've ever sent?

Deep questions to ask your crush (21)

1. What makes you feel most like yourself?
2. What's something you're proud of that people don't know about?
3. What does a good relationship look like to you?
4. What's a fear you have that you rarely talk about?
5. Who knows you better than anyone?
6. What's something you're still learning about yourself?
7. What does feeling safe with someone look like to you?
8. What's the best advice you've ever been given about love?
9. What part of your life are you most excited about right now?
10. What do people usually get wrong about you?
11. How do you show someone you care about them?
12. What's a moment that changed how you see the world?
13. What are you looking for right now, in life or in love?
14. What's your love language, if you had to pick one?
15. When do you feel most loved?
16. What's a dream you haven't given up on?
17. What's something you wish people asked you about more?
18. What's a small kindness you still think about?
19. What do you need more of in your life right now?
20. What's something you believe about love that you didn't believe a few years ago?
21. How do you know when you can trust someone?

Questions to find out if they like you (29)

1. Who in your life would I get along with the most?
2. Do you text everyone this much, or am I special?
3. What's your favorite conversation we've had so far?
4. If you could hang out with anyone this weekend, who would it be?
5. What do your friends think about you talking to me?
6. What would make you want to see someone again after one hangout?
7. Are you single, or is that a complicated question?
8. What's your favorite thing about talking to me?
9. Would you rather FaceTime tonight or keep texting?
10. Have you told anyone about me?
11. What did you think when you first got my message?
12. What would be a perfect plan for us this weekend?
13. What are you hoping happens between us?
14. When you see my name pop up, what's your first thought?
15. If we never met, who would you be texting right now?
16. What's the best part of your week so far?
17. What are you doing this weekend?
18. What kind of messages make you smile when you see them?
19. Who's the person you text the most right now?
20. What's something you'd want to show me in person?
21. If you had a free evening tomorrow, how would you spend it?
22. Do you remember the first thing I ever said to you?
23. What do you look forward to most in a day?
24. Would you tell me if you liked someone, or keep it a secret?
25. What makes you want to keep talking to someone?
26. Do you think we'd be good at a trip together?
27. What's the last thing someone did that made you nervous in a good way?
28. If you could hang out with me or your best friend tonight, who wins?
29. What would you text me if you weren't allowed to be shy?

Would you rather questions for your crush (15)

1. Would you rather go on a picnic or a rooftop dinner?
2. Would you rather get a surprise visit or a long handwritten letter?
3. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or sing in the car?
4. Would you rather have a first date at a museum or an arcade?
5. Would you rather get breakfast in bed or a late-night snack run?
6. Would you rather be kissed in the rain or under the stars?
7. Would you rather be texted good morning or good night?
8. Would you rather plan the date or be surprised?
9. Would you rather a weekend away or a whole day at home together?
10. Would you rather know what I think of you, or keep guessing?
11. Would you rather share fries or share dessert?
12. Would you rather hold hands or link arms?
13. Would you rather a cute couple photo or a silly one?
14. Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
15. Would you rather go stargazing or watch the sunrise?

This or that questions (12)

1. Texting or calling?
2. Flowers or snacks?
3. Rom-com or horror movie for a date?
4. Morning coffee date or late night drinks?
5. Cuddles or adventures?
6. Matching outfits or matching playlists?
7. Sweet texts or funny memes?
8. Slow dance or wild dance?
9. Beach date or city date?
10. Love letter or voice note?
11. Cook together or order in?
12. Holding hands in public or keep it lowkey?

Never have I ever for crushes (23)

1. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend.
2. Never have I ever written a text and deleted it before sending.
3. Never have I ever stalked someone's playlist to learn about them.
4. Never have I ever practiced what I'd say before calling someone I liked.
5. Never have I ever had a dream about someone I was texting.
6. Never have I ever made a playlist for someone.
7. Never have I ever laughed at a joke I didn't get, to impress someone.
8. Never have I ever planned an outfit around who I might run into.
9. Never have I ever screenshot a text to show a friend.
10. Never have I ever asked someone out first.
11. Never have I ever laughed so hard on a date that I cried.
12. Never have I ever sent a text to the wrong person.
13. Never have I ever had a crush on a celebrity for a full year.
14. Never have I ever changed my plans to bump into someone.
15. Never have I ever kept a ticket or receipt from a date.
16. Never have I ever rehearsed a conversation in the shower.
17. Never have I ever read a text and waited before answering on purpose.
18. Never have I ever fallen asleep on a phone call.
19. Never have I ever written someone a love note.
20. Never have I ever looked up someone's ex.
21. Never have I ever planned a whole date in my head before asking.
22. Never have I ever danced in the kitchen with someone.
23. Never have I ever said I love you first.

Flirty questions for your boyfriend or girlfriend (53)

1. What did you think the first time you saw me?
2. When did you know you liked me more than a friend?
3. What's your favorite memory of us so far?
4. What's something I do that you secretly love?
5. What outfit of mine is your favorite?
6. What's a date we haven't been on yet that you want to try?
7. What was going through your head on our first date?
8. What do you miss most about me when we're apart?
9. What's something you want to do together this year?
10. What little thing makes you feel loved by me?
11. What song makes you think of us?
12. If we had a free weekend with no plans, how would you want to spend it?
13. What's one thing about me you'd never change?
14. What's your favorite photo of us?
15. When do you feel the closest to me?
16. What's one thing we should do on our next video call?
17. What would you plan for our anniversary if money didn't matter?
18. What's something you've always wanted to tell me but haven't?
19. What's your favorite way I say your name?
20. What should our next inside joke be?
21. What's the most romantic thing I've done for you?
22. What's a memory of us you replay when you miss me?
23. What should we do the first hour we see each other next time?
24. What did you think the first time we said goodnight?
25. What's a habit of mine that you've picked up?
26. What's our best date so far, and why?
27. Where do you see us a year from now?
28. What's something about us that would surprise our friends?
29. What's a tradition you want us to start?
30. What do you love most about how we fight and make up?
31. When did you last think about me during the day?
32. What's a trip we have to take together?
33. What's a small thing I could do this week that would make you happy?
34. Which song should be ours, if it isn't already?
35. What's a moment you felt really proud of me?
36. What would you put in a care package for me?
37. When we're apart, what do you miss first: my voice, my face or my jokes?
38. What would our perfect lazy day together look like, hour by hour?
39. What's something you want to learn about me that you don't know yet?
40. What's your favorite thing I've ever texted you?
41. If we had a couple motto, what would it be?
42. What's one thing we should never stop doing?
43. What's a date from a movie you'd want us to recreate?
44. What's a routine of ours you never want to lose?
45. What do you still find exciting about us after all this time?
46. What's a small way I could flirt with you more during a normal week?
47. What's one thing we did early on that we should bring back?
48. When do you feel like we're the best team?
49. What's a date we keep saying we'll do but never do?
50. What would you want to tell the version of me from our first date?
51. What's a little thing about our home or our calls that makes you happy?
52. What do you want our next year together to feel like?
53. Which of our inside jokes still makes you laugh the most?

Spicy questions for your partner (not explicit) (28)

1. What's something I do that you find unfairly attractive, and when did you first notice it?
2. What's your favorite outfit of mine, and what does it do to you?
3. When did you last really want to kiss me?
4. What's the moment you most wanted to kiss me but couldn't?
5. What's one thing I could say that would make you forget what you were doing?
6. Describe our perfect date night, from the first text to the goodnight kiss.
7. What's a look I give you that you can't resist?
8. What's something you want to whisper to me next time we see each other?
9. What do you find most attractive about me when I'm not trying?
10. What's the best kiss we've had so far?
11. What's one flirty thing you want me to text you tomorrow morning?
12. What would you do if we had a whole night with no phones and no plans?
13. What's something about the way I touch your hand or hair that you love?
14. What makes you feel most wanted by me?
15. Which of my photos do you look at the most?
16. What's the most tempting thing I could say on a video call right now?
17. What's the most tempting text I could send you during your workday?
18. Where's the most unexpected place you've wanted to kiss me?
19. What's the most attractive thing I've ever said to you without meaning to?
20. If we had five minutes alone right now, how would you spend them?
21. What's a glance or a look of mine you'd recognize anywhere?
22. What's the most romantic thing you'd want to whisper to me on a video call?
23. What part of our next date are you most impatient for?
24. What's something about me you think about when you can't sleep?
25. What's the most charged moment we've had so far?
26. If you could plan one perfect evening for just the two of us, no limits, what's the first thing that happens?
27. What do I do that makes you want to drop everything and come over?
28. What's a compliment from me you'd like to hear more often?