Talking Stage Questions and Conversation Starters for Texting

Just matched Texting a while First call After the date Before the talk

Just matched: openers for a new match (52)

1. What's the best thing you've eaten this month?
2. Quick one: coffee date, drinks, or a walk with snacks?
3. What's the story behind your second photo?
4. Rate your week out of ten. Seven isn't allowed.
5. What's something you're weirdly good at?
6. What would your friends say your most annoying habit is?
7. Be honest, how many times did you rewrite your bio?
8. What's your go-to karaoke song?
9. Dogs, cats, or plants that you keep alive by luck?
10. What's the last thing you bought that you didn't need but love?
11. What's a hill you'd die on?
12. Best thing you did last weekend?
13. You get one meal for the rest of your life. Go.
14. What app do you open way too much?
15. What's the most spontaneous thing you've done this year?
16. What's on your phone lock screen right now?
17. What's something you're excited about right now?
18. What made you want to try this app?
19. What does a good day look like for you?
20. What are you into lately?
21. What made you swipe on me?
22. Your smile in that photo is a little unfair. Where was it taken?
23. What's the best pickup line you've heard on here?
24. What would a first date with you look like?
25. Be honest: are you as fun as your photos suggest?
26. What are you hoping to find on here?
27. How long have you been on the app?
28. What do you think we have in common so far?
29. What's the most overrated thing everyone loves?
30. Pick one: road trip, city break, or beach with no plans?
31. What's your best dish to cook?
32. What's the last concert you went to?
33. What's a movie you can quote by heart?
34. Would you rather be famous or very rich and unknown?
35. What's your coffee order? It says a lot about a person.
36. What's your favorite spot in this city?
37. Be honest: are you a reply-right-away person or a reply-in-three-days person?
38. What's a random fact you know that nobody asked for?
39. What's your favorite way to waste an afternoon?
40. What's something you're learning right now?
41. What's a small thing that always makes your day better?
42. What's something you're looking forward to this year?
43. Okay, I have to ask: what's your best first date story?
44. Do you have a rule for who texts first?
45. Your bio made me laugh. Was that on purpose?
46. Do you prefer to text for a while or meet soon?
47. Okay, your third photo needs a backstory. Go.
48. What's the hobby on your profile I should ask about first?
49. Be honest, is that your dog in the photo or a borrowed one?
50. Your prompt answer made me curious. What's the full story?
51. Where was that travel photo? It looks unreal.
52. Your bio made me smile. Did you write it in one try?

Texting for a while: questions that are not boring (78)

1. What's the best thing that happened to you today?
2. Send me the last song you listened to.
3. What would you do with a free day tomorrow?
4. What's the weirdest thing you believed as a kid?
5. What show are you watching right now?
6. Would you rather never use your phone again or never eat your favorite food again?
7. What's a smell that instantly takes you back somewhere?
8. Two truths and a lie. Go.
9. What would your perfect Saturday look like?
10. What did you eat today? Be honest.
11. If you had a theme song walking into a room, what would it be?
12. What's the best meme you saw this week?
13. What's a weird food combination you love?
14. What's your useless superpower?
15. What's the most you've ever laughed at something dumb?
16. Send me a photo of your view right now.
17. Who's your celebrity crush, and don't say nobody?
18. What's your most unpopular food opinion?
19. What are you most proud of this year?
20. What's something people usually get wrong about you?
21. Who's the person you're closest to?
22. What's something you're working on right now?
23. What's a small thing that makes you feel cared for?
24. What's the best advice you've ever gotten?
25. What do you do when you have a bad day?
26. What's a place that feels like home to you?
27. What are you looking forward to this month?
28. What's something you changed your mind about recently?
29. What does your family think you do for fun?
30. What's your favorite thing we've talked about so far?
31. What's your favorite time of day to text?
32. Be honest, are you a double-texter?
33. What's your type, honestly?
34. What made you smile today?
35. Which of my texts made you laugh the most?
36. What's a compliment you never get tired of?
37. When do you get butterflies?
38. What's the cutest thing someone has done for you?
39. Are you talking to other people right now, or is that too soon to ask?
40. What makes you want to keep texting someone?
41. What's a green flag for you in the first few weeks?
42. What's the longest you've texted someone before meeting?
43. Would you rather call or keep texting?
44. When do you usually want to meet someone you're talking to?
45. What's a smell you love that other people find weird?
46. Describe your day using only three emojis. Words allowed if you must.
47. What's the best thing on your desk or nightstand right now?
48. What's a trend you secretly like?
49. If you could teleport anywhere for dinner tonight, where would you go?
50. What's a song you'd play at your own party?
51. What was your nickname growing up?
52. What's something small you're grateful for today?
53. What's the best part of your job, or your days?
54. What's a dream you had as a kid that you still think about?
55. How do you recharge after a long week?
56. If we were hanging out right now, what would we be doing?
57. What's something you want to know about me but haven't asked?
58. How do you feel about phone calls before a first date?
59. What's a thing that makes you lose interest fast?
60. Okay, I need your opinion on something important: pancakes or waffles?
61. This song made me think of you. Have you heard it?
62. Sorry I went quiet. My week was a lot. How was yours?
63. Random question: what's the best thing you've watched this week?
64. I just remembered what you said about your weekend plans. How did it go?
65. What's one thing that made you laugh since we last talked?
66. We need to settle this: best fast food fries?
67. Send me a photo of what you're doing right now. I'll send mine.
68. Quick, describe your week as a movie title.
69. New game: tell me one thing nobody would guess about you.
70. What's something good that happened since we last talked?
71. I owe you a better question than "how are you". What are you excited about right now?
72. Still alive over there? I'm about to make a very questionable dinner choice.
73. Would you rather get a voice note or a long text from me?
74. Okay, honest review of your week in five words.
75. I tried that place you mentioned. Or I'm about to. Any tips?
76. What's the best thing you ate since we last talked?
77. Plot twist: tell me something about you I'd never guess.
78. Thinking about you. How's your day going, really?

First call or FaceTime (48)

1. What's something you were curious to ask me in person, or on a call?
2. What does your room look like right now? Give me the tour.
3. What's the funniest thing that has happened to you this year?
4. What's your most chaotic travel story?
5. What's your comfort show right now?
6. Rapid fire: beach or mountains, sweet or salty, call or text?
7. What would be your dream job if money didn't matter?
8. What's something that always makes you laugh?
9. What was the last thing you got really excited about?
10. What's a memory you go back to when you need a good mood?
11. Who has had the biggest influence on you?
12. What do you love about where you live?
13. What's something you've been thinking about a lot lately?
14. What's a goal you have for next year?
15. What's one thing about you I'd only learn on a call?
16. How are you really doing this week?
17. Is it weird hearing my voice for the first time?
18. What did you think I'd sound like?
19. Be honest, were you nervous before this call?
20. What do you want to do when we meet in person?
21. What's the best part of this call so far?
22. What's something about you that photos don't show?
23. Should we meet up soon?
24. What would make a first date feel easy for you?
25. What's your morning routine, the real one?
26. If you had to cook me something right now, what would it be?
27. What's the last photo you took?
28. What's the most random thing you can see from where you're sitting?
29. Would you rather we play a game or just talk?
30. What's your most used sticker or GIF?
31. What would your pet say about you, if you have one?
32. What's a decision you're glad you made?
33. What's something that makes you feel calm?
34. What do you like to do when you're alone?
35. What's a value you'd never compromise on?
36. What's something you wish more people knew about you?
37. Can you tell when someone likes you?
38. What's your favorite thing about talking to me so far?
39. If I was there right now, what would we be doing?
40. Are you free this weekend?
41. Should we make this a regular thing?
42. How do you feel about a second call before we meet?
43. First question so we skip the awkward part: how was your day, honestly?
44. Before we start, how was your day, really?
45. Where are you sitting right now? Show me.
46. What did you do right before this call?
47. Tell me one funny thing that happened this week.
48. Quick, three things on your desk right now. Go.

After the first date (44)

1. What do you want this week to look like for us?
2. What was your favorite part of last night?
3. Did you get home okay? Also, rate the date out of ten.
4. What would you do differently on date two?
5. What was the funniest moment of our date?
6. What place should we try next?
7. Did you tell your friends about the date? What did you say?
8. What did you think of the place we went?
9. Was I as funny in person as over text?
10. What surprised you about me?
11. What did you learn about me that you didn't expect?
12. What's something you want to tell me that you didn't say on the date?
13. How do you feel after first dates usually?
14. What made you feel comfortable last night?
15. I had a really good time. Did you?
16. What was going through your head when we said goodbye?
17. When can I see you again?
18. What did you think when you first saw me in person?
19. Do you want to hear my favorite moment from the date?
20. Can I take you somewhere better next time?
21. How long did you think about our date after?
22. Are you up for a second date?
23. What would you want our next date to be?
24. How do you like to keep in touch between dates?
25. Do you want to keep this just us for now?
26. Okay, be honest, did I talk too much?
27. What would you name our first date if it was a movie?
28. What did you order, and would you get it again?
29. Did anything funny happen on your way home?
30. Best moment and most awkward moment of the date. Go.
31. What should our second date have that the first didn't?
32. What do you want to know about me now that we've met?
33. Did the date feel different from texting?
34. What was one thing you liked about the conversation?
35. How are you feeling about us so far?
36. I keep thinking about our date. Is that normal?
37. What's something you wanted to do on the date but didn't?
38. Were you nervous at the start?
39. What would make our next date even better?
40. Want to know what I liked most about you?
41. How soon is too soon to see each other again?
42. Do you want to call tonight?
43. What day works for you next?
44. Can I tell my friends I met someone cool?

Before "the talk": what are you looking for (46)

1. What are you looking for right now, something casual or something real?
2. How do you know when you want to be exclusive with someone?
3. Are you seeing anyone else right now?
4. What does a relationship look like for you?
5. What do you think we are, right now?
6. Do you want to keep seeing where this goes?
7. What's a dealbreaker for you in a relationship?
8. How much time do you like to spend with a partner?
9. What are you not ready for yet?
10. What would make you feel secure with someone?
11. How do you like to handle disagreements?
12. What does commitment mean to you?
13. Should we delete the apps?
14. What's something you're scared of in relationships?
15. What did your last relationship teach you?
16. How do you show someone you love them?
17. What does a good partner do on a bad day?
18. What's a relationship you admire, and why?
19. Where do you see yourself in a few years?
20. What's something you need from a partner that you rarely say out loud?
21. How do you like to be supported when you're stressed?
22. If we became official, what would be our first couple thing?
23. What's our song, if we had one?
24. What would you post if we went public?
25. Who would you tell first if we made it official?
26. What do you like most about us so far?
27. When did you know you liked me more than a crush?
28. What would you call me if I was your partner?
29. How would you ask someone to be your partner?
30. What would you want me to know before we get more serious?
31. How do you feel about meeting each other's friends?
32. Are you looking for the same thing as when we started talking?
33. How do you feel about long distance, if it ever came to that?
34. What does a perfect week together look like for you?
35. How often do you like to talk when you're in a relationship?
36. What helps you trust someone new?
37. What's something you want to build with someone?
38. What makes you feel most loved?
39. What would our couple name be?
40. What should our first official date be?
41. Would you want to make this official?
42. What's your favorite thing about the way we talk?
43. What's the most fun we've had together so far?
44. When did you know you didn't want to talk to anyone else?
45. What's something you want us to do together this month?
46. What helps you feel close when we're both busy?