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Send a Virtual Hug That Lasts as Long as You Hold

Hold the button. The longer you hold, the longer their hug lasts.

Published By Niclas Illg

Quick answer

To send a virtual hug, press and hold the button above: the hug lasts as long as you hold. Pick the kind of hug, add a note (or tap Write it for me), then tap Send the hug. They open the link, press and hold to receive it for the same length, read your note, and can hug you back. Free, no app, no sign-up.

How does it work?

  1. Hold to hug. Keep your finger (or the space bar) on the button. A quick tap makes a 3 second hug; you can hold up to 20 seconds.
  2. Pick the kind of hug. Long distance, good night, hard day, get well, sorry, proud of you, birthday, or just because.
  3. Add a note. Write your own, or tap Write it for me for a line that fits the kind of hug.
  4. Send it. Share the link in any chat, or save it as an image.
  5. They hold to receive it. The figures hug for as long as you held, then your note appears. One hold on the hug back button and they send one to you, and the link keeps count of the hugs between you.

When should you send a virtual hug?

Want something they can keep for later? Write a set of open when letters, or learn to say it in their language with our I love you in different languages cards.

What makes a virtual hug feel real?

A virtual hug works when it is specific. Hugging you is nice; hugging you because I know today was the interview is better. Our tips:

Live video call between two partners in Cupie. After the hug, see each other on a Cupie video call.
After the hug, see each other on a Cupie video call.

What are the limits?

24-day call streak in Cupie. Keep a call streak together in Cupie.
Keep a call streak together in Cupie.

FAQ

How do I send a virtual hug?

Press and hold the hug button above for as long as you want the hug to last, pick a kind of hug, add a note, and tap Send the hug. Share the link by text, WhatsApp, email or any chat.

What does the other person see?

A card that says you sent them a hug and how long it lasts. They press and hold to receive it, the two figures hug for that long, and then your note appears, and they can hold a button to hug you back.

Do we need an app or an account?

No. It works in any phone or computer browser. Your note travels inside the link itself, so nothing is stored on a server.

Can I just copy a text hug?

Yes. Under the tool there are text hugs like (っ´▽`)っ and {{{hug}}} that you can copy with one tap and paste anywhere.

Does a virtual hug actually help?

It is not a real hug, and it does not pretend to be. What helps is the attention: a small, specific sign that you are thinking of someone. Relationship researchers at the Gottman Institute call these small moments bids for connection. A note plus a call later is better than either alone.

How we made this page: page text and tool drafted with help from AI tools, then reviewed and edited by Niclas Illg against the sources below on November 3, 2026. The tool itself runs in your browser, with no AI generator behind it. Cupie is our own app.

Sources

  1. Turn Toward Instead of Away, The Gottman Institute
  2. Navigator.vibrate() (used for the heartbeat on Android), MDN Web Docs
  3. Cupie: Call Games for Couples on the App Store
  4. Cupie on Google Play